NLP - 3 Ways to Feel Better About Yourself and Build Your Self Esteem
Written on July 17, 2008
For some people its hard to feel better about themselves, most of the time because they dont know how. I will give you 3 concepts that will help you feel better about yourself: compassion, praise and compliments. Start understanding and applying these ideas into your life, a little bit at a time, everyday, until you feel confident enough to tell yourself that you are unique, special and an extraordinary person.
1. As with many things, compassion is a positive emotion that can replace negative thought patterns. Make compassion your new best friend. Every one of us has positive qualities and also negative ones. Everyone is good at some things but also has some things they arent as good at. Cultivate humility and apply the concept of compassion to yourself today.
2. Praise yourself for the positive things that happen to you all the time. At the same time, use the negatives experiences as a learning tool. In fact, dont even think of them as negative. You should rather view and categorized them as possibilities. Remember, there are no failures; there is only feedback, something that you can learn from, always.
3. Learn to give yourself compliments. People with low self-confidence often have trouble accepting compliments. List all the qualities about yourself that you like. You can list physical, emotional and intellectual qualities. Study the list. Good. Now, add three more things to the list. Is it hard? Take your time. Practice telling yourself these positive things in front of a mirror.
Learn also to accept compliments from others. If someone tells you they like your outfit, dont say oh, this old thing? Instead, a simple thank you will do. It will boost your self-confidence and will also boost the confidence of the person who gave you the compliment. Remember that you are as deserving of compliments as anyone else.
Compassion, praise and accepting compliments are complex emotions and states of mind. But you can easily apply them into your life to cultivate a beautiful mind and continue living an extraordinary life.
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